The Men Who’ve Impacted My Life (For Better or For Laughs)

From my grandfather’s wisdom to the laughter of my brothers from other mothers, and the unbreakable strength of my sisters, this is a story of the people who’ve shaped my life—through lessons, loyalty, and a little bit of chaos.

La gente sabe lo que hay.

¿Qué quiero que la gente diga de mí? Que soy determinada, persistente y genuina. Que mi kindness va más allá de palabras, y que siempre pongo la autenticidad sobre la aprobación.

My Accidental Career as a Wedding Speech Giver

From last-minute panic speeches to officiating ceremonies, I’ve accidentally become the go-to person with a mic at weddings. Chaos, overthinking, and a touch of dark humor included.

The Discipline Dilemma: Admiring the Grind in Others (and Sometimes Myself)

Discipline is like flossing: everyone knows they should do it, but the thought alone makes most of us weep. I admire those rare unicorns who make it look easy—and I’m giving myself a tiny round of applause for occasionally pulling it off, too. Here’s to managing time, persistence, and determination… when life doesn’t feel like a dumpster fire.

Unapologetically Still Standing

This year broke me, built me, and stripped me bare until all that was left was me. Messy. Raw. Honest. And honestly? I wouldn’t have it any other way. Grateful for the chaos, the scars, and the lessons. Grateful for me. Feliz cumple to la cabrona que never gives up—me.

I Am From: A Poetic Tribute to My Roots, Resilience, and My Mother’s 50th Birthday

A tribute to my roots, resilience, and memories—written during the Main Street America summer retreat and shared today in honor of my mom’s milestone 50th birthday.

Crossroads, Resistance, and the Path Forward

Standing at a crossroads between Puerto Rico and Chicago, I’m caught between the comfort of familiarity and the thrill of growth. Sometimes, life makes decisions for you, but finding peace in the unknown is a journey all its own.

Ode to My Most Expensive Misstep (aka ATX)

An ode to the year Austin took my savings, but gave me back a whole new perspective. 💸✨

Finding My Way Back:

La Tercera La Vencida in Chicago?

First snowman with Jose Antonio Zayas Del Rio after some well deserved mezcalitas*

After years of bouncing between Puerto Rico, Chicago, and ATX, I’m back in the Windy City for the third time. From juggling PR work with Sobremesa Chicago pop-ups to full-time babysitting, and now with a fresh outlook, the question remains: is the third time really the charm?